Cyberbullying Dangers

The issue of cyber bullying is making front page news around the world at the moment.

Cyber bullying is defined as bullying which is carried out through an Internet service such as email, chat room, discussion group or instant messaging. It can also include bullying through mobile phone technologies such as SMS. Recent statistics report that over 70% of 5-14 year olds in English speaking countries use the internet during or outside school. The research also suggests that as many as one in three students aged 10-14 will experience some form of cyber bullying in the next twelve months. These statistics to me are alarming!

Unfortunately, the problem with this form of bullying in schools is that students often know and understand interactive online technologies more than their teachers. That being said, this is probably true for us as parents as well! This is an issue when we are asking our children to report to us any incidents that may occur as they worry that the way we will ‘solve’ this issue is to remove access to the technology in question. Apparently the absolute last thing that they want is for their parents to remove their social network tools!

Similarly, it can sometimes be difficult for us as parents to pick up the signs that cyber bullying may be occurring. In summary any signs of unusual behaviour that your child is exhibiting may indicate that they are a victim of cyber bullying. These may include spending excessive time on the computer, mood swings or becoming more anti-social.

So what can we do? Some practical advice offered by numerous experts in this field revolves around these key themes:

  • Clear Communication: Discuss cyber bullying with children including any problems they have.
  • Research: Find out the anti-bullying policies at your children's school. Determine if these apply online as well.
  • Investigate: Know what children are talking about if they come to you for help. Investigate what they do online.
  • Observe: Watch out for any behaviour changes especially related to online activity.
  • Contacts: Know who to contact if your child is being cyber bullied and what the procedure is for removing distressing information off the Internet

To assist parents in understanding the latest internet applications and popular websites, I have included an excellent summary within the GUARDIAN TOOLS section of this website. This contains a list of FAQ’s that parents have regarding these technologies.

Of course, the learning guide on “Internet Dangers” contains specific parental information that outlines in detail the information you need to protect your children. It also contains a comprehensive list of important age-specific strategies to deal with cyber dangers, as well as further links and tools you can use. The guide also addresses other aspects of internet safety that needs to be considered. For more information, just click on this link.

Some further resources you might like to check out include:

Australian Government Program: http://www.acma.gov.au/WEB/STANDARD/pc=PC_311102 or more information at www.cybersmartkids.com.au

National Cyber Security Alliance (US): http://www.staysafeonline.org

Cyberbullying Website (UK): http://yp.direct.gov.uk/cyberbullying/

Don’t forget, if you would like me to comment on any aspect of your children’s education, please don’t hesitate to contact me at shane@learningguardian.com.